I had such good intentions for this week. Put away all the Christmas stuff. Get all my paperwork sorted, organized, shredded, filed, etc. Normal household chores. Maybe even start that walking thing - you know, exercise?
But it's cold. I'm not talking chilly...I'm talking "freezin' butt cold" (as my friend Susan calls it). It has stayed in the 40's and 50's during the days and below freezing at night. My heat pump is set for 68 degrees - very "green" of me. And it's COLD in my home. I would never set my A /C to 68 degrees! For one thing that would be a waste of energy and money. For another thing it would be freakin' COLD in here!!!! YET YET YET it has not been above 68 degrees in my home since Saturday.
All I want to do when I get home is wrap up in a quilt and get warm. So I wrap up in my Grammy's crocheted quilt and then I snuggle in my big, fat chair, and I read. Or I wear one of my two jackets and get on my laptop. Or I eat - after all, that brings up the body temp considerably. What haven't I done? Put away the Christmas stuff. Get ALL my paperwork sorted, organized, shredded, filed, etc. Normal household chores. And forget exercise! It's COLD outside and I have little outerwear - a couple jackets, no gloves, no hats (unless sunhats & visors count), and no warm scarves. And there's no way I'm stripping down to some stretch pants and a top and doing yoga in this cold meat-locker living room of mine.
I will admit that I have sorted a lot of paperwork and put a lot away - not all I had hoped. AND I unloaded, reloaded, and ran the dishwasher. But that's it. That's all.
Well, whaddya know? ....my hands are much warmer now. Maybe a little tantrum was just what I needed. I'm feeling much better and I believe I have some things to do .... after all...it's only Tuesday!
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Tuesday, December 22, 2009
DOGS, COPS, AND DAUGHTERS
"Back in the day" when I used to watch TV I would use it to lull myself to sleep, or to pass the time when I couldn't sleep. My ex and I divorced in 1992 and the following August I bought a house in Lake Capri, a quiet community of mostly older folks who had moved there in the 1970's and 1980's to retire. Atlanta suburban sprawl had caught up to this part of Rockdale County and now it was just another suburban neighborhood. I loved the area with its spring-fed lakes and walking trails, and I liked the house.
My older daughter, a senior in high school, moved in with her father, and my younger daughter stayed with me. Our house had two bedrooms upstairs that shared a large bathroom and, on the weekends when my older daughter came to stay, the girls could have all the privacy up there they wanted. The master bedroom was downstairs and I could also have all the privacy I wanted and needed at that time. The house had a large fenced yard and the girls' two dogs lived back there. Snoopy and Jodi were two mutts that the girls adopted at the pound when both dogs were just puppies. Snoopy was a black chow-mix and Jodi was a huge hairy collie-shephard-and-something-else mix. The dogs were my responsibility (problem) now as they were older and the girls had moved on to bigger and better things.
One winter night I could not sleep and I was channel-surfing, clicking from one station to another, looking for something, anything to watch. I had put the dogs into our large utility shed because it was going to be below freezing that night. Melissa was asleep upstairs (or so I thought) and Mary Lee was at her dad's. I was in the divorcee's typical sexy nighttime outfit - an over-sized tee-shirt and panties. Click. Click. SCREAM. I jumped and clicked. One of the channels must have had on a horror movie and I clicked on it just as some poor victim let out a bloodcurdling scream. It gave me shivers and I made a note to skip that channel if I surfed near it again. Click. Click. What's that? Boring. Click. Click.
Let's change the point of view. My daughter Melissa, who was 13 or 14 at the time, was upstairs just dozing off when a bloodcurdling scream woke her. She froze in her bed as the scream was cut off! MOM!?! She listened and heard nothing. O MY GOD! Had something happened to Mom? She reached for her phone and pulled it under the covers with her. 9-1-1. She told the operator that she had heard her mother scream downstairs and she thought someone was in the house. The operator immediately dispatched two deputies to the address and kept Melissa on the phone. Was there any way she could get out of the house? No, the stairs and front door were by her mother's room. Was her bedroom door locked? No, yes, maybe, sometimes it didn't lock all the way. Did she want to check? No! She was too scared to even get out of bed. For all she knew her Mom was dead and someone was coming up the stairs to get her! The operator tried to calm her and kept her on the phone while the police hurried to our address.

Point of view shift: Mom is watching some stupid movie or program downstairs totally unaware of what is going on in her daughter's room. All of a sudden she sees lights dancing on the wall outside of her bedroom door. Mom rubs her eyes; the lights are still there. It looks like someone is shining a flashlight through her living room windows. Holy crap! Someone is trying to break in! Mom is terrified! She mutes the TV and slowly climbs out of bed looking for a weapon. Nothing! She tiptoes to her bedroom door and peers around the wall into the living room. There are two people standing at her front door shining flashlights through the window! One of them raps on the door and says, "Ma'am! Police! Can you come to the door?"
Police?
"Just a minute!" she says. She stumbles to the door and slides back the latch. She hears her daughter's bedroom door slam open and her daughter stampedes down the stairs saying, "I'm sorry! I'm sorry! Mom, I'm so sorry!"
Mom opens the door to the police who are relieved that we are both all right, but supremely aggravated that, in checking out the house before approaching the front door, they had heard noises around back and opened the utility door. The two excited dogs had bounded out, jumped all over them, and had run away. My daughter apologized for calling 9-1-1 and they were very kind to her and told her she did the right thing. I was mortified to be standing there in an over-sized tee-shirt, wild hair, and clueless. They apologized for releasing the dogs, and made a halfhearted attempt at rounding them up before they gave up and drove away. Melissa ran back upstairs and fell asleep. I put on some sweatpants and a jacket and retrieved the dogs.
My older daughter, a senior in high school, moved in with her father, and my younger daughter stayed with me. Our house had two bedrooms upstairs that shared a large bathroom and, on the weekends when my older daughter came to stay, the girls could have all the privacy up there they wanted. The master bedroom was downstairs and I could also have all the privacy I wanted and needed at that time. The house had a large fenced yard and the girls' two dogs lived back there. Snoopy and Jodi were two mutts that the girls adopted at the pound when both dogs were just puppies. Snoopy was a black chow-mix and Jodi was a huge hairy collie-shephard-and-something-else mix. The dogs were my responsibility (problem) now as they were older and the girls had moved on to bigger and better things.
One winter night I could not sleep and I was channel-surfing, clicking from one station to another, looking for something, anything to watch. I had put the dogs into our large utility shed because it was going to be below freezing that night. Melissa was asleep upstairs (or so I thought) and Mary Lee was at her dad's. I was in the divorcee's typical sexy nighttime outfit - an over-sized tee-shirt and panties. Click. Click. SCREAM. I jumped and clicked. One of the channels must have had on a horror movie and I clicked on it just as some poor victim let out a bloodcurdling scream. It gave me shivers and I made a note to skip that channel if I surfed near it again. Click. Click. What's that? Boring. Click. Click.
Let's change the point of view. My daughter Melissa, who was 13 or 14 at the time, was upstairs just dozing off when a bloodcurdling scream woke her. She froze in her bed as the scream was cut off! MOM!?! She listened and heard nothing. O MY GOD! Had something happened to Mom? She reached for her phone and pulled it under the covers with her. 9-1-1. She told the operator that she had heard her mother scream downstairs and she thought someone was in the house. The operator immediately dispatched two deputies to the address and kept Melissa on the phone. Was there any way she could get out of the house? No, the stairs and front door were by her mother's room. Was her bedroom door locked? No, yes, maybe, sometimes it didn't lock all the way. Did she want to check? No! She was too scared to even get out of bed. For all she knew her Mom was dead and someone was coming up the stairs to get her! The operator tried to calm her and kept her on the phone while the police hurried to our address.

Point of view shift: Mom is watching some stupid movie or program downstairs totally unaware of what is going on in her daughter's room. All of a sudden she sees lights dancing on the wall outside of her bedroom door. Mom rubs her eyes; the lights are still there. It looks like someone is shining a flashlight through her living room windows. Holy crap! Someone is trying to break in! Mom is terrified! She mutes the TV and slowly climbs out of bed looking for a weapon. Nothing! She tiptoes to her bedroom door and peers around the wall into the living room. There are two people standing at her front door shining flashlights through the window! One of them raps on the door and says, "Ma'am! Police! Can you come to the door?"
Police?
"Just a minute!" she says. She stumbles to the door and slides back the latch. She hears her daughter's bedroom door slam open and her daughter stampedes down the stairs saying, "I'm sorry! I'm sorry! Mom, I'm so sorry!"
Mom opens the door to the police who are relieved that we are both all right, but supremely aggravated that, in checking out the house before approaching the front door, they had heard noises around back and opened the utility door. The two excited dogs had bounded out, jumped all over them, and had run away. My daughter apologized for calling 9-1-1 and they were very kind to her and told her she did the right thing. I was mortified to be standing there in an over-sized tee-shirt, wild hair, and clueless. They apologized for releasing the dogs, and made a halfhearted attempt at rounding them up before they gave up and drove away. Melissa ran back upstairs and fell asleep. I put on some sweatpants and a jacket and retrieved the dogs.
Tuesday, November 3, 2009
NO TV FOR 2 MONTHS - SO WHAT?
I disconnected my cable from my TV 2 months ago. Have I learned anything from this experience?
- I've learned that I really don't miss the TV shows themselves. I had a pang when I realized I wouldn't get to watch "Amazing Race", but I don't sit on my couch on Sunday nights weeping and wailing and gnashing my teeth because I'm missing the show. I used to watch "Judge Judy" twice a day almost every day, yet I don't wonder about who didn't get paid for a cell phone account that they bought for a girlfriend/boyfriend, or who got stuck with a lease on an apartment when their friend/boyfriend/girlfriend moved out early, or who is suing whom for beating someone up during a bar fight. I don't miss the news, the entertainment gossip, the weather reports, the sitcoms, the reality shows, and I especially don't miss all the commercials. My God, I used to spend entire evenings salivating over pizza delivery ads and fast food ads and those ads for quick-fix brownies. (It only takes minutes in your microwave to enjoy warm gooey fudge brownies!) I don't miss the endless channel surfing on weekends, watching bits and pieces and even chunks of movies (most of which I'd already seen!), and feeling guilty for wasting yet another beautiful weekend inside watching TV. I don't even miss "Sunday Morning" as much as I thought; I have my Sunday morning coffee with NPR radio or a book.
- I've learned watching TV did not cause me to gain weight, lose weight or maintain weight. DAMN. DAMN. DOUBLE-DAMN.
- I've learned that I can read a tremendous amount of books when I'm not spending any time watching TV.
- I've learned Netflix is really cool and I love finding that red envelope in my mailbox.
- I've learned that the weather can sneak up on me because I don't watch 45 weather reports at night; however, sometimes the weather used to sneak up on me even when I did watch 45 weather reports because I wasn't really paying attention to them! I'm not worried about any tropical storms or hurricanes sneaking up on me because,
- hurricane season is over, and,
- I'll notice all the bread and milk gone at the local Publix.
- I've learned that I can isolate myself as much as I did when I was a TV-holic.
- I've learned that spending Sundays with my girlfriends is fun and refreshes my soul.
- I've learned that TV did not prevent me from exercising. CRAP! (STUPID TV!)
- I've learned that blogging can be fun or it can be a pain in the butt. Just like everything in life.
- I've learned that I don't need TV.
- I've learned that silence can be comfortable.
- I've learned that I can waste just as much time surfing the Internet as I used to waste channel surfing; however, I can't surf the net with just one finger pressing a button. It takes just a little bit more effort than channel surfing. Not enough to lose significant weight or get toned, but probably enough effort that I've never done it more than a couple hours.
- I've actually learned something that may be useful in other...behavior modifications I may want to undertake. I've learned that if I make something I usually do difficult to do then I won't do it. So, wouldn't the reverse be true? If I make something I don't usually do easy to do I might do it. Food for thought.
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Wednesday, September 2, 2009
DAY 2 - Frogs Making Love?
Another rainy day and another feeling icky day. My muscles were all kind of achy this afternoon so I took another nap when I arrived at home. Maybe I'm just going to sleep away my TV-less time.
Let's see, it's Wednesday so it's Criminal Minds night. I do enjoy that show - about the BAU team that tries to out-think serial killers. I like the various actors and the characters are interesting. The plots vary from ho-hum typical TV plots to really interesting stories that keep my on the edge of my seat until the end. Right now it's in reruns and I've actually been catching up on old episodes that play on Friday and Sunday nights on A&E. No more, though. I'll look forward to catching up next year...or maybe I won't.
I received my box of books today that I ordered from Barnes & Noble so I have two Tim Dorsey crime/humor books and La Vida Vampire written by local author Nancy Haddock. This is part of my homework-networking to become a published author. This kind of homework I like - reading!
Still not suffering from TV withdrawal - napping and radio have both helped me through so far. NPR's evening music ain't so bad. And there's always Flagler College radio.
I've had supper--wait--no I haven't! I ate a salad and pulled a couple hot dogs from the freezer and forgot to cook them. Hey! Maybe I've found the perfect diet! I forgot to EAT!
So while my hot dogs pop in the microwave I will share that my food urges have really disappeared with the absence of TV. Sitting in front of the TV creates food cravings in me - it's not just the endless food commercials - although they contribute to the cravings - but the inherent boredom of sitting there and doing nothing. Because TV doesn't take any participation. Unlike a good movie that keeps you engrossed TV just kind of occupies one part of your brain - the DUH part - while you are still bored. And when I'm bored - I don't know about you - but when I'm bored I want to eat.
So - excuse me while I eat my dawgs and then I'll be going to bed.
Let's see, it's Wednesday so it's Criminal Minds night. I do enjoy that show - about the BAU team that tries to out-think serial killers. I like the various actors and the characters are interesting. The plots vary from ho-hum typical TV plots to really interesting stories that keep my on the edge of my seat until the end. Right now it's in reruns and I've actually been catching up on old episodes that play on Friday and Sunday nights on A&E. No more, though. I'll look forward to catching up next year...or maybe I won't.
I received my box of books today that I ordered from Barnes & Noble so I have two Tim Dorsey crime/humor books and La Vida Vampire written by local author Nancy Haddock. This is part of my homework-networking to become a published author. This kind of homework I like - reading!
Still not suffering from TV withdrawal - napping and radio have both helped me through so far. NPR's evening music ain't so bad. And there's always Flagler College radio.
I've had supper--wait--no I haven't! I ate a salad and pulled a couple hot dogs from the freezer and forgot to cook them. Hey! Maybe I've found the perfect diet! I forgot to EAT!
So while my hot dogs pop in the microwave I will share that my food urges have really disappeared with the absence of TV. Sitting in front of the TV creates food cravings in me - it's not just the endless food commercials - although they contribute to the cravings - but the inherent boredom of sitting there and doing nothing. Because TV doesn't take any participation. Unlike a good movie that keeps you engrossed TV just kind of occupies one part of your brain - the DUH part - while you are still bored. And when I'm bored - I don't know about you - but when I'm bored I want to eat.
So - excuse me while I eat my dawgs and then I'll be going to bed.
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